Speaker : Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
Date : Feb 16, 2020
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1 Timothy 3:2 KJV
A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behavior, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
Family life is the first thing that shapes you. Your first experiences are from your family.
Your experiences affect the way you see life.
Genesis 2:18 KJV
And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him.
It’s not surprising to see people who are successful in their careers but unsuccessful in their marriages. This is mainly because they spend/spent time studying in line with their careers but not as regards marriage.
Marrying because you are lonely is one of the wrong reasons to get married.
If you marry for the wrong reason you will most likely marry the wrong person.
Husband's the best gift you can give to your wife is Fidelity. Manage your sexuality.
If you’re going to be #RelationshipGoal kind of man, you must manage your sexuality.
As a man, your job is to believe in your wife not belittle her.
Have full confidence in her, women thrive in confidence.
You must build your wife, nurture her.
As a man, your task is to make a highflier of your wife. You must delight in building up your wife & nurturing her. You mustn’t talk her down but talk her up.
Proverbs 31:11 AMP
The heart of her husband trusts in her [with secure confidence], And he will have no lack of gain.
Your wife has great potential; farm that land.
Counsel her, help her look for things she is good at and nurture it.
As a man, you must make a commitment to transform the woman God has placed in your hands.
Proverbs 31:29 AMP
“Many daughters have done nobly, and well [with the strength of character that is steadfast in goodness], But you excel them all.”
Charm and grace are deceptive, and [superficial] beauty is vain, But a woman who fears the Lord [reverently worshiping, obeying, serving, and trusting Him with awe-filled respect], she shall be praised.
Proverbs 31:30 AMP
It takes a man that fears the Lord to appreciate a woman that fears the Lord.